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Children Under Arrest

Children are born with an innate desire to contribute, to serve, and to play a role in the world around them. Different personalities express this desire uniquely, but it is always there. Parents often do not realize that a helpless … Continue reading

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Undercover Hero

A mother holds her delicate, new-born baby, and imagines him to be as helpless, through and through, as he appears outwardly. Tiny fingers balled into perpetual little fists, eyes a hazy blue, legs crossed as though ready for yoga, and … Continue reading

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Grit and Bear It

Gnashing or grating one’s teeth during sleep otherwise corresponds to teeth or jaw-clenching, which is indicative of suppressed anger.┬áThis suggests that there has been an injustice committed against the child with no remedy or rectification available to him. In this … Continue reading

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Chain Reaction

Stop temper tantrums and get Charlie to eat by training him. Help your girl’s screaming, and your boy’s hitting by fixing the cause. “My child breaks toys on purpose; my daughter is catty.” Correct the world view. How to help … Continue reading

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Personal Security

Personal Security is about being satisfied with one’s person. Accepting myself as I am is my greatest challenge in life. If dad and mom are discontent, striving to meet the unsuitable standard of being someone more, and hoping others will … Continue reading

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